Breast cancer has changed my life in ways I never could have imagined. While my journey has brought challenges, it has also brought incredible friendships, unexpected connections, and a deeper appreciation for every day. I am reminded constantly that even in our hardest moments, there is an opportunity to lift one another up.
Through my blog, I’ve met women whose stories have touched my heart. One is a young mother with a toddler son who is currently undergoing chemotherapy, with several surgeries ahead. Her brother introduced us, and I make a point to check in every couple of weeks. She is incredibly strong and positive, and while I hope my messages bring her comfort, I know our connection strengthens me just as much. Sometimes, simply knowing someone cares makes all the difference.
Last week, I participated in a panel with fellow survivors and doctors specializing in women’s health and genetics. The room was filled with people whose lives had been touched by breast cancer, whether personally or through someone they love. The energy was powerful, hopeful, and full of understanding.
I also met a woman through that panel who ran the Chicago Marathon this year to support Sharsheret, an organization that helps women and families navigating breast and ovarian cancer. I’m honored to support her campaign. All of these connections, ones I didn’t have before my cancer journey, remind me that every story matters and that none of us has to walk this journey alone.
One of my most important messages is this: please stay current with your breast cancer screenings. Early detection made a difference in my journey, and I am grateful for the advances in research, technology, and genetic testing that help women make informed decisions about their health. Talk with your healthcare provider about the screening schedule that is right for you and your individual risk. If cost or insurance becomes a barrier, ask about financial assistance and available screening programs. Please don’t let financial uncertainty keep you from seeking care.
For those in Central Indiana, Cancer Support Community Indiana offers support groups, counseling, and resources for patients and families. Indiana’s Breast and Cervical Cancer Program offers free or low-cost screenings and diagnostic services to eligible residents who are uninsured or underinsured.
I no longer embrace “Why me?” Instead, I choose to believe that God can use my experience to help me support others. I know some women are celebrating milestones while others are fighting for one more day. I stand with all of them. Their courage gives me strength, just as I hope mine gives them strength.
I am grateful for every day, every friendship, and every opportunity to remind another woman that she matters.
Check in on your friends. Show up for your family. Reach out to someone who understands. Support doesn’t have to be a grand gesture: a text, a meal, a ride to treatment, or a follow-up call can mean so much. Schedule your screening. And never underestimate the power of simply being present.
Together, we are stronger.
